A handshake is a globally widespread, brief greeting or parting tradition in which two people grasp one of each other’s like hands, in most cases accompanied by a brief up-and-down movement of the grasped hands.
Using the right hand is generally considered proper etiquette.
Customs surrounding handshakes are specific to cultures.
Different cultures may be more or less likely to shake hands, or there may be different customs about how or when to shake hands.
There are various customs surrounding handshakes, both generally and specific to certain cultures:
The handshake is commonly done upon meeting, greeting, parting, offering congratulations, expressing gratitude, or as a public sign of completing a business or diplomatic agreement.
In sports or other competitive activities, it is also done as a sign of good sportsmanship.
Its purpose is to convey trust, respect, balance, and equality.
If it is done to form an agreement, the agreement is not official until the hands are parted.
Unless health issues or local customs dictate otherwise, a handshake is made usually with bare hands. However, it depends on the situation.
Handshakes arround the world:
In Anglophone countries, handshaking is common in business situations. In casual non-business situations, men are more likely to shake hands than women.
In the Netherlands and Belgium, handshakes are done more often, especially on meeting.
In Switzerland, it may be expected to shake the women’s hands first.
Austrians shake hands when meeting, often including with children.
In the United States a traditional handshake is firm, executed with the right hand, with good posture and eye contact.
In Russia, a handshake is performed by men and rarely performed by women.
Hand shaking between men and women is not encouraged in countries such as Saudi Arabia, Iraq, Pakistan, Iran, etc. where the majority religion is Islam.
As a general rule, in these countries, men are not allowed to get close to the opposite sex or touch them.
Within the Muslim world, Turkey is an exception where men and women can shake hands with each other.
In some countries such as Turkey or the Arabic-speaking Middle East, handshakes are not as firm as in the West. Consequently, a grip that is too firm is rude.
Moroccans also give one kiss on each cheek (to corresponding genders) together with the handshake.
Also, in some countries, a variation exists where instead of kisses, and the handshake the palm is then placed on the heart.
In China, age is considered important in handshake etiquette, and older people should be greeted with a handshake before others.
A weak handshake is also preferred, but people shaking hands often hold on to each other’s hands for an extended period after the initial handshake.
In Japan, it is appropriate to let the Japanese initiate the handshake, and a weak handshake is preferred.
The Japanese do not have a tradition of shaking hands and prefer to formally bow (with hands open by their sides) to each other, but they will greet non-Japanese with a handshake.
In India and several nearby countries, the respectful Namaste gesture, sometimes combined with a slight bow, is traditionally used in place of handshakes. However, handshakes are preferred in business and other formal settings.
In Norway, where a firm handshake is preferred, people will most often shake hands when agreeing on deals, in private and business relations.
In Korea, a senior person will initiate a handshake, which is preferred to be weak. It is a sign of respect to grasp the right arm with the left hand when shaking hands. It is considered disrespectful to put the free hand in one’s pocket while shaking hands. Bowing is the preferred and conventional way of greeting a person in Korea.
Related to a handshake but more casual, some people prefer a fist bump. Typically the fist bump is done with a clenched hand. Only the knuckles of the hand are typically touched to the knuckles of the other person’s hand. Like a handshake the fist bump may be used to acknowledge a relationship with another person. However, unlike the formality of a handshake, the fist bump is typically not used to seal a business deal or in formal business settings.
The hand hug is a type of handshake popular with politicians, as it can present them as being warm, friendly, trustworthy and honest. This type of handshake involves covering the clenched hands with the remaining free hand, creating a sort of “cocoon”.
Another version popular with politicians is a “photo-op handshake” in which, after the initial grasp both individuals turn to face present photographers and camera men and stay this way for several seconds.
Scouts shake hands with their left hand as a gesture of trust, a practice which originated when the founder of the movement, Lord Baden-Powell of Gilwell, then a British cavalry officer, met an African tribesman.
In some areas of Africa, handshakes are continually held to show that the conversation is between the two talking. If they are not shaking hands, others are permitted to enter the conversation.
Masai men in Africa greet one another by a subtle touch of palms of their hands for a very brief moment of time.
In Liberia, the snap handshake is customary in which the two shakers snap their fingers against each other at the conclusion of the handshake.
In Ethiopia, it is considered rude to use the left hand during a handshake. While greeting the elderly or a person in authority, it is also customary to accompany the handshake with a bow and the left hand supporting the right. This is especially important if it is the first time.
In Thailand, handshaking is only done if the traditional wai is not offered. When a person offers a wai, placing their palms together at chest level and bowing. This is then returned, with men saying “Sawadee-krap” and women, saying “Sawadee-kah” (both means hello)
History of handshaking:
Archaeological ruins and ancient texts show that handshaking – also known as dexiosis – was practiced in ancient Greece as far back as the 5th century BC; a depiction of two soldiers shaking hands can be found on part of a 5th-century BC funerary stele on display in the Pergamon Museum, Berlin (stele SK1708) and other funerary steles like the one of the 4th century BC which depicts Thraseas and his wife Euandria handshaking.
In addition, handshake appeared on Archaic Greek, Etruscan and Roman funerary and non-funerary art.
Muslim scholars write that the custom of handshaking was introduced by the people of Yemen.
Why is bad?
Handshakes are known to spread a number of microbial pathogens. Certain diseases such as scabies are known to spread the most through direct skin-to-skin contact.
A medical study has found that fist bumps and high fives spread fewer germs than handshakes.
In light of the 2009 H1N1 pandemic, the dean of medicine at the University of Calgary, Tomas Feasby, suggested that fist bumps may be a “nice replacement of the handshake” in an effort to prevent transmission of the virus.
Following a 2010 study that showed that only about 40% of doctors and other health care providers complied with hand hygiene rules in hospitals, Mark Sklansky, a doctor at UCLA hospital, decided to test “a handshake-free zone” as a method for limiting the spread of germs and reducing the transmission of disease. However, UCLA did not allow the ban of the handshakes outright, but they rather suggested other options like fist bumping, smiling, bowing, waving, and non-contact Namaste gestures.
Other sources suggest raised brows, smiling, wai bow, two claps, hand over heart, sign language wave, or the shaka sign.
During the COVID-19 pandemic, several countries and organisations adopted policies encouraging people to use alternative modes of greeting instead of a handshake.
Suggested alternatives have included the elbow bump, the fist bump, foot tapping (“Wuhan Shake”) or non-contact actions for social distancing purposes, such as a namaste gesture.
So after all the pluses and minuses it is up to us to decide how we greet people we know or don’t.
Let’s spread love without shaking hands, after all it has different minion in a different cultures.